Being extremely friendly, able to communicate with almost anyone.
Do have its drawbacks. I have been called a player, a flirt, a bad boy.
Even my girl-friends say they heard rumours about me picking up a few girls in a party. To prove her point, i gave her my phone to find those "girls".
A player, from a guy's perspective, tells a girl the following:
1) Sweet nothings
Telling a girl that he'll give her the moon and sky. Telling her that he'll love her until the end of the sun or having a heart as wide as the earth. Telling her that he wouldnt want anything in this world, except for your love. Writing her love poems. There's so much more, and I dun really wan to ruin the trade :p
I dun do all that. I'm just friendly. i'll wont say that to any girl, I'll only say that to my gf :)
even my ex-gf has commented saying that I dun flirt, i wished i was a player - I am just being friendly.
I wish people wouldnt look at you at face value. But than again, who am i kidding? A person is judged the first 10 seconds of the first meeting and that lasts for life.